These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.
But if you’re 44 years old hitting up 21 year-old women, I’m sorry, but you’re going to have to step it up a little.
Mistake Number 2: Acting Like A Creepy Older Man, i.e.
Being Horny Or Sexual Too Fast One of the greatest pieces of seduction advice I’ve ever heard was to “risk creepy”.
The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.
That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.
This is very, very good advice, I do this myself, and I recommend it to all men across the board…
Definitions As usual, we need to get our definitions straight.
Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.
While there are always unusual exceptions to every rule, this approach does not work.
It fails for a very simple reason: The VYW most likely to have sex with you are the Type 2s, which are women who younger men their own age.