I have talked about the L word issue with him 2-3 times, and he doesn't have anything to offer besides "I'm not ready to say it", "I'm being honest" and "It's too early".
(So much for keeping it short...) Thank you for reading.
Another possible redflag is that he rarely talks about our future, he says he can see us moving in together soon but that's about it.
Our breakup was extremely amicable and we always told each other if it was meant to be, life would bring us back together. Unfortunately our reunion was due to both of our recently failed relationships.
Mine was a bit longer than his (mine was 5 years; his was only 9 months).
We decided to give our relationship another chance after meeting again at a birthday dinner for a mutual friend.
All these years I had convinced myself that I was over him and that I was in love with my boyfriend; however, upon seeing my ex, I felt jittery and all those feelings I convinced myself weren't there came rushing back and it's hard to ignore those feelings. He was my first love and I know we can make it work this time around. Here's my dilemma: I have just discovered that I am 5 weeks pregnant.