Women are still going to prefer tall, successful men.All we can do is tackle this confidently, and not get too thrown by the many bumps in the road.The good news, Nicci, is that all of the answers can be derived from the same exact technique – flipping things over to consider the other person’s point of view.Let’s start with you, because a) you wrote me the note, and b) you’re an online dating anomaly – an honest size 10 who doesn’t claim to be athletic and toned.If I’m a 5’4” man, I know that it’s going to be hard to get a date if I tell the truth.
Curves is a dating site that promotes real people looking for meaningful relationships.
If, by definition, 95% of men are wrong for you, it should be expected that many will be unemployed, uneducated, older and inappropriate. They’re allowed to take a crack at you, and you’re allowed to ignore them. Focus on what you can control – YOU – and let go of what you can’t – MEN.
Focus your energies on attracting and maintaining the 5% that you want. Understanding this about online dating is essential to your success.
(If you're interested in casual hook-ups, please look elsewhere.) Curves Connect is for anyone who self-identifies as curvy, plus-size, or having a few extra pounds or curves, and people who don't judge a book by its cover.
I have been online dating for about two months and it’s been so-so thus far. I’m 5’3″ and an hourglass-ish size 10, so while I’m not obese, I’m definitely not “athletic and toned.” I chose pictures that I think accurately show this.