You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.
Guys that are too fast getting in are probably going to be too fast getting out.
Despite the occasional dating disasters and mating missteps, there's a lot to love about you guys.
You're older and wiser, smarter and sexier than you were in your younger days.
And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.
TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.
I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.
GF #1: "There seems to be some kind of 'trying on of a girlfriend.' On the first date, I've had a guy take my hand and rub my shoulders, without any words of seduction or romance.You can prepare a lovely Italian meal for a guy, and all of a sudden he brings up the fact his ex made the best lasagna of all time." GF #2: "Men in their fifties can be cynical, especially if they were in a bad marriage.They talk about how awful their ex-wives are, and how much money they had to give them." GF #3: "Getting involved with a guy who's still reeling from his divorce can sometimes feel like he's having an affair, except that the 'other woman' isn't a woman, it's his anger." My Advice: Dump the baggage, dude.Plus, your experience and maturity give you more depth and better perspective in life. We're rooting for you men, so go get 'em (just don't go too fast).Ageless is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women.