These women are the walking dead and will kill you emotionally, if not physically if you let them, someone in the sky was looking out for me because I was able to get out while I could.Just arm yourself guys, and if you think there is a chance you are dating one run for the hills.Below are some signs you are dating a borderline, anyone who is experienced in dating one of these is free to add to the list.- She tells you she loves you within the first month or first few dates of knowing her - she does whatever it takes to please you in bed.the beginning that is, once she has you she uses sex as a weapon until she gets bored of you - compliments you a lot, tells you your the best she's ever had, etc - very critical of other men.i cant say for sure she had a personality disorder or not but the signs were certainly there. any type of personality disorder where the person has literally no ability to feel any empathy or sympathy is scary though.i dont think ill ever meet another woman as callous in my entire life. but i saw the venom in her a few times prior to that so i shouldnt be surprised. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.
And if you date long enough you probably will Spent a ton of years of my youth dating a BPD.
I can honestly say though that after the breakup I was just emotional drained, confused, and doubted myself for the first time in my life. The reason why you read so many threads about guys dealing with these types of women lies in the fact that these are the only type of women who have the ability to drive an otherwise normal guy to the point where he desperately needs to find emotional support.
The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like I'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell I questioned my own sanity at that point. i honestly dont know, out of all the girls i ever dated only one was able to legitimately make me feel worthless.
maybe i should be glad she left me for someone else. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us, an insecure weak man is of no use to these women because they break.
i've done way too much reading on this because when something liek that happens to you, you want to search for answers. the only guys likely to stick around long enough for them to suck the life out of is a narcissistic dude who won't take any ****.