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Then the process can escalate on both sides to the point of ridiculously funny sexual innuendos. I have trust issues with women, so when one shows interest in me, my first thought is "what does she want?
Still doesn't mean it's a serious intent, and it could be just for fun, but it's certainly flirting at that point. " I see it as a form of manipulation and it takes me a long time to warm up to someone.
Flirtation can actually be to your advantage if you have trust issues. Being too complimentary etc., is not flirting in my book.
You are not committing to anything, and you are maintaining a boundary of ambiguity. Because a big part of flirting is being very observant of the other person's reactions.